The Denim Diaries by Kami Gray

Blog by TV Wardrobe Stylist Kami Gray of THE DENIM DIET: 16 Simple Habits to Get You Into Your Dream Pair of Jeans (New World Library) Available Everywhere!

01
Jul

I EAT AT LEAST FIVE MEALS A WEEK away from home. Fast food aside, there is always something on a restaurant menu I can eat. I’ve become very skilled at reading menus and determining the best option. The problem is, I have this annoying habit of doing it for other people I’m dining with. I just get so excited about eating well. My kids used to have no idea how to peruse a menu because I always did it for them. I didn’t order for them. I’d make suggestions, and they came to trust that I pretty much got it right every time. Plus, they knew if they put up too much of a fuss, they would have to endure a long, drawn-out lecture regarding choices and habits, and no kid wants that.

Before I break it down for you, I want to teach you a skill I use to maintain my good habits. I call it FPV, which sounds like an acronym for a newly discovered sexually transmitted disease, but it’s short for Food Planning and Visualization, a helpful tool to use on your journey to fatlessness (yes, I have spellchecker). Now that so many restaurants have their menus online, FPV has become even easier. Think I’m off my rocker? I don’t have a rocker just yet, so hear me out. The human mind is incredibly powerful. Successful people visualize their success before it happens. Take professional golfers. Did you know that the really great ones (or maybe all of them) plan out every stroke in their head before they ever swing the club? They visualize their swing, what the ball will do after it makes contact with the club, what path it will take, and exactly where it will land on the fairway or green.

In much the same way, I visualize what I’m going to eat. I plan it out beforehand. I do this several times a day. It has become habit for me. At night, I might review in my head what I ate that day and realize I went a little over the top, so I visualize what I will eat the next day. I make a plan. If I have a restaurant meal on my schedule, I picture items I know the place serves or check its website for a sneak preview of the menu. I believe planning and visualizing is an important exercise that can help you in your quest to lose and maintain weight. It may not be for everybody, but it works for me and has been an easy and effortless habit to develop. (excerpt from The Denim Diet.)

For those of you in major cities like New YorkSan Francisco, Los Angeles, Philadelphia, Boston, Chicago, Washington, DC, and South Florida, you’re in luck! Menupages.com has you covered. Check out this stylie new website for menus in your area.

17
Jun

From my segment on San Diego Living last week…I highlight some of the tips I offer in my book, The Denim Diet.

San Diego Living: June 15, 2009

1) FPV–Food Planning and Visualization Most of us eat out a couple of times a week. One of the biggest reasons it’s hard to be successful when you’re trying to lose weight is not knowing how to eat out at restaurants without overeating.  There’s a trick to doing this successfully that I call FPV-which stands for Food Planning and Visualization. You plan in advance what you are going to eat and you visualize yourself doing just that. Successful people visualize their success before it happens, whether it’s perfecting a golf swing, delivering a great presentation, or not succumbing to food temptation. Now that so many restaurants have their menus online, FPV has become even easier.  Go to the restaurant’s website and select exactly what you are going to order when you get there.  Picture yourself saying, “I am going to have the grilled chicken breast salad lightly dressed with balsamic vinegar and olive oil.” See yourself eating it and enjoying it and not going home feeling overly-stuffed and needing to lie down on the couch wondering, “Why did I do that?” Make a plan and you are far more likely to execute it perfectly.

2) Embrace Dieting Failures and Move Forward With Baby Steps. Every woman I know who has tried to lose weight has been unsuccessful at one time or another in her attempt, whether it was a daily setback or less frequent eating mishaps. I know many dieters get this idea in their head that when they’ve blown it, like say they ate a 200 calorie chocolate chip cookie, they figure well, I’ve gone and ruined my diet for today and I may as well really blow it and eat a few more cookies or maybe a half a pint of ice cream. Can you imagine what would happen to the shape of our financial health if we had that same attitude when we’re out shopping for clothes? Just like you really can’t afford a 200 calorie cookie, you splurge on a pair of $200 jeans and then figure you’ve blown it now so you may as well buy a $200 pair of shoes and a $400 handbag? No, we cut our losses, vow to stick to the budget next time, maybe put a few more hours in at the office and get back on track. Same goes with your diet. So you ate a cookie, forgive yourself, let it go, vow to be better the rest of the day, and move on.  Successful weight loss is all about the baby steps…a lot of little baby steps in the right direction adds up to steady and permanent weight loss. But the opposite is also true so don’t beat yourself up over one cookie – that only makes matters worse…just get back on track.

3) Have The Big O: An Organic-ism that is! Put your money where your mouth is.  Organic food costs more and you’re worth it.  A study through The Organic Center (http://organic-center.org/) recently proved that organic food is, on average, 25 percent more nutritious, so you’re definitely getting more for your money and any good chef will tell you it also tastes better. Organic food also takes a lot of the guesswork out of reading labels. The USDA does not allow nasty, fat-making ingredients like high fructose corn syrup and partionally hydrogenated oils (aka, trans fats) in certified organic food. Instead of being a member of the Clean Your Plate Club, drop your membership effective immediately and join the Clean Eaters Club where eating local and seasonal food that has been minimally processed is all the rage and for good reason. Go to eatwellguide.org to locate farmers’ markets, food co-ops, restaurants, and bakeries that provide local, sustainable, and organic food in your zip code.

4) Eat Well With Others Understand where friends, family, and favorite food enablers our coming from. Recognize that your plateful may look slightly different than your children’s or your spouse’s or your roommate’s.  You may even get hassled a bit or questioned by your loved ones. Prepare yourself for comments and concerns from family members and well-meaning food enablers who want to tell you how “you’re missing out” and “limiting yourself”. Some may try to guilt you into eating something that you shouldn’t by saying it’s your favorite and they made it (or bought it) especially for you.  Be gracious, and politely but firmly decline.  Your best defense is not to be defensive – you’ll get hassled more!  Be indifferent.  Indifference is a powerful tool.  Do what dogs do – quietly tilt your head in a semi-puzzled, but trusting look and go back to what you were doing.

5) Jeans vs. Junk Food: Be A Master of Your Denim. Every time you want to eat junk food, ask yourself…what is more important, the momentary pleasure of eating this, or fitting into that dream pair of jeans? I say, Behind every successful dieter is a supportive pair of jeans! Buy the size you are realistically going to fit into when you’ve shed your unwanted pounds and keep them visible in your bathroom, or hanging at the front of your closet and try them on once a week.  This is such an excellent motivator and one that has worked for me for over two decades. And here’s what you do if you’re home and you’re being summoned into the kitchen by a bag of potato chips, go try on that pair of jeans! That’ll stop you dead in your tracks – especially if you notice your jeans are actually feeling a little looser. Such good motivation!

10
Jun

 

On June 17th, I will be the guest speaker at an event for The Link for Women in Portland, Oregon. It’s going to be a special night of fun, food, and fashion and I would love for all you Portland Women to attend and participate in what’s going to be a lively discussion! Big Brothers Big Sisters will be on-hand to collect donations of new or gently worn jeans. Those who donate will get a one-time discount of 30% on a new pair jeans courtesy of Nolita in the Pearl District. This whopping discount is a unique offer and is only available to those that attend this event. 30% off a pair of designer jeans is HUGE! Katy from Nolita will be on-hand to talk jeans and will also have many pairs available for sale if you can’t wait to visit her fabulous store. True Religion, one of Nolita’s vendors is sponsoring the event.

We’ll be learning all about my 16 simple habits to create the healthy body that all those fad diets promised, but could only deliver temporarely. My easy guidance will change things around for the rest of your life. I don’t work exceptionally hard at this — trust me, if I can do it, anybody can! 

The Link for Women is a group of 2000+ fabulous Portland women (there is also a branch in Seattle) that offers outstanding networking. Everytime I’ve attended an event, I’ve made numerous contacts that lead to some new amazing opportunity…as well as friendship!

Please come join us! 

Here are the Details

Cost: Includes tapas and no-host cocktails) 

Pre-Paid Members $30/ Non-Members $45 (By NOON, day of event) 
At the Door Members $35/ Non-Members $50 

Click HERE to register.

Agenda 
5:30 - 6:30 Tapas, cocktails and linking 
6:30 - 8:00 Conversation and Q & A 
8:00 - 8:30 A final cocktail/more linking 

Location 
bridgeport brewpub + bakery
1313 NW Marshall Street
Portland, OR 97209
503.241.7179
Parking available at the Safeway Building. 
Entrance is on 14th between Lovejoy and Marshall.

http://www.bridgeportbrew.com

29
May

Sorry for the delay. I was actually waiting for an e-mail response back from Jessica, the first person to comment. I needed some clarification about her meal such as whether the sandwich bread was whole wheat and what she thought was in the sauce on her sandwich.

Unfortunately, I never heard back from her.

So…the winner is Jennifer G! Her response was…

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Breakfast:
1/2 banana, glass of milk (fat-free, of course) and one slice of turkey breast on a slice of double-fiber whole grain bread

Lunch:
1 hard-boiled egg (minus half the yolk), some baby carrots and a glass of fat-free milk

Dinner:
a boneless chicken breast (grilled without oil or fat), about 2 servings of broccoli (with a squeeze of lemon) and a romaine salad with cucumbers and a dash of vinegar and lemon juice.

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I would love to hear from you if you have questions as to why this particular menu was the big winner.

Thanks so much for participating in the Give-A-Way!

26
May

Thanks so much everyone! The winner of the goody bag and signed copy of The Denim Diet will be announced Wednesday morning — I really appreciate you all sharing your meals with me! Since you were so kind as to share, it’s only fitting that I divulge what I ate for breakfast, lunch, and dinner last Friday:

BREAKFAST

1 cup organic nonfat plain yogurt

1/2 cup frozen organic blueberries

1 tablespoon chopped organic almonds and walnuts

1/2 teaspoon organic maple syrup

 

LUNCH:

1/2 eggwhite salad (mixed with dijon mustard)

1 slice Dave’s Killer (Power Seed, whole grain) organic bread, toasted

1/2 small organic avocado, sliced

1 organic banana

 

SNACK:

1 piece organic light string cheese

1 small square dark organic chocolate (85% cocoa)

1 organic pear

 

DINNER:

Grilled true cod - about 6 ounces

Dinner salad - mixed veggies with organic balsamic, citrus dressing.

Red wine - approximately two glasses ;-)

 

And…lots and lots of water throughout the day!

 

Thanks again and look for the contest winner tomorrow!

 

HAPPY TUESDAY!

22
May

It’s Friday. The sun is shining in Portland, Oregon. It’s a three-day weekend. Sounds like the perfect time to give one of my blog readers a goody bag filled with tasty and healthy, organic goodies from my beloved homestate of Oregon. I also throw in a personalized signed copy of The Denim Diet.

This fun little give-a-way contest is EASY. All you have to do is comment below and tell me what you had for breakfast. lunch, or dinner yesterday. No cheating! The first person that sends in a Denim Diet-approved meal gets the goody bag and signed book. It’s my book so I’m the judge!

Your e-mail address will automatically be sent to me (no one else can see it) and I will send you an e-mail reply notifying you that you’re the winner and request a mailing address…it’s that easy!

Here are the actual bag contents (I’m not really sending you carrots): 

Dagoba New Moon, Organic Dark Chocolate (74% Cacao Content)

Gourmet Grey Sea Salt from The Meadow - (w/ salt spoon)

Tazo Organic Om Tea, 24 Tea Bags

Stumptown organic, fair trade coffee

Stash Organic Agave Nectar Sticks 20 CT

Personalized, signed copy of The Denim Diet: Sixteen Simple Habits to Get You into Your Dream Pair of Jeans

1 page cheat sheet for The Denim Diet

Okay…shame the devil…what did you eat yesterday?

19
May

From a 1990 Nike "Just do it" ad in Vogue

And now what? The Denim Diet?!? Forget about the word diet for a moment. The topic of calories is front and center today and is a favorite of mine. I delve into it briefly in my book. Here’s an excerpt…

We’ve all heard, “it’s calories in, calories out,” right? It’s true that a deficit will cause weight loss, while a surplus will cause weight gain. If I severely restricted my daily calorie intake, but my diet consisted solely of refined cane sugar, I seriously doubt I’d lose weight because I’d be sending my blood sugar (insulin level) through the roof. According to Barbara Berkeley, MD, a board-certified internist who has specialized in treating overweight and obese patients for over twenty years, “insulin is the hormone that opens your fat cells and allows foods to be stored as fat. It is the only major hormone that has this job.” So you want to keep your insulin level low and keep calories in check to accumulate less fat.

Marcelle Pick, RNC, MSN, OB/GYN NP (on womentowomen.com) just wrote a very thorough article on calories, metabolism, setpoint, hormones, and why some women have a tough time losing weight or keeping it off once they’ve lost it. I encourage you to read the entire (quite lengthy) article titled, Natural weight loss: A holistic approach that’s healthy, effective and lasting, but I’ve summarized the article and included a few key excerpts here:

Dr. Pick is writing from personal experience. Her opening sentence reads, “Over the years I’m sure I’ve lost over 100 pounds — the same 10 pounds ten times!”

In her 27 years of practicing medicine, she has made a few conclusions about weight gain and resistence to weight loss. The reason she calls her findings a holistic approach is she believes that in order to lose weight and keep it off, “you must restore your health and hormonal balance — if you don’t, either the weight will come right back after you stop dieting, or it will stay put no matter how hard you try to get rid of it. Think of it as getting healthy from the inside out. Only once you’re in balance can you lose weight and keep it off.”

The just of this is weight loss success isn’t only about calories in/calories out…genetics, nutrition, physical activity, emotional history, stress level, lifestyle, and environment are all factors as well. Seems like a lot to control, but she breaks it down: 

On nutrition: ”No matter how often you hear that “a calorie is a calorie,” it is just not that simple: what, when, and how you eat do matter. And nothing shuts down metabolism faster than starvation and deprivation. Your body immediately switches into hoarding mode: conserving fat and burning the liver’s glycogen reserves for energy. Once the reserves of glycogen are depleted, your brain sends out intense hunger signals that will not be denied. This is the source of so much failed yo-yo dieting and repeat weight gain.”

On setpoint: “Adequate nutrition combined with moderate physical activity automatically keeps our bodies at a healthy set point: a predetermined body fat ratio within a 10–15-pound weight range. Your metabolism is designed to vigorously defend your set point by speeding up or slowing down if its thresholds are threatened.”

On what’s going on with the rest of your body functions and systems: “The amount you eat and when are governed by your brain, fat cells, and central nervous system (which are highly influenced by your environment). How well you digest your food and rid your body of toxins relies on the health of your GI tract and other organs, like your liver, kidneys, and lymphatic system. How efficiently the cells in your body convert your food to energy is affected by the health of your respiratory, musculoskeletal, endocrine, and immune systems.”

On metabolic hormones: “New insights appear almost daily on this weight loss frontier — the relationship between hormones and how the gut talks to the brain to regulate weight — Of course, the major player in this scenario is insulin. Insulin is a primary hormone that is directly affected by your diet. It determines whether blood sugar gets used right away for immediate energy or stored as fat instead. Any disruption in the insulin-regulating mechanism, such as insulin resistance, has an instant effect on some of the lesser metabolic hormones — the list of which grows longer each year as we uncover more of the inner workings of human metabolism.” Dr. Pick discusses other hormones in the article.

On the brain and weight loss: “The metabolism’s first priority is to feed the brain. The brain needs a steady stream of glucose to perform, and when that stream is disrupted the body responds with a multitude of coping mechanisms, like flooding the pathways with cortisol and adrenaline. Designed to cover the brain’s demands for energy during short periods of stress, these emergency measures were never intended to stay switched on. Unfortunately, that is exactly what’s happening in many women — leading to chronic depletion in certain areas, food addiction, depression, and unhealthy weight.”

On our emotions: “Not just chemicals, but feelings too. But our brains aren’t just a collection of chemicals; emotions can also be powerful contributors to weight gain, because they all produce biochemical reactions in the physical world. Some women simply can’t begin to take the necessary measures to heal their physiology without first addressing their emotional attachment to food.”

On inflammation, digestion, and obesity: “One of the more overlooked signs of a taxed metabolism is inflammation, especially as it relates to fat cells. Proteins synthesized in adipose tissue, also called adipocytokines, are compounds that can have both proinflammatory and anti-inflammatory effects. Which effect gets the upper hand depends on the healthy balance of all the other elements we’ve discussed — and more. We still can’t say whether inflammation is a primarily the result or a cause of obesity, but we know the two go hand-in-hand.”

On building muscle and losing fat: “As a species, we are meant to be active. Our ancestors had to walk, run, dig and till for their food. Over and over again, the magic pill that everyone is looking for appears to be exercise. This doesn’t mean you have to become a fanatic, but you do have to incorporate physical activity into your daily routine. The right amount or style will, again, depend on your individual circumstances and metabolic profile. A diet high in simple carbohydrates and sugar means that your body has a ready supply of glucose and rarely has to burn fat. A balanced diet that includes more protein, micronutrients, and fiber provides more long-term fuel and helps builds muscle.”

On natural detoxification: “Nature has provided us with a remarkably efficient and versatile detoxification system, but allergens, heavy metals, unhealthy bacteria, pesticides, and the cumulative effects of toxic exposure over many years directly influence how well everything else in your body functions. It is the piece that ties everything together. How well you are coping with your “toxic load” is highly individual, but gaining weight (or being unable to lose weight) is a telling sign that demands are outweighing support. The health of your liver and kidneys, your essential detox organs, should be addressed as part of any good weight loss plan.

I like Dr. Pick’s whole body, sensible approach and It would appear that she and I are pretty much on the same page. Do you think there are any areas she covers that you could work on to achieve better weight loss results, have more energy, feel better, and/or put an end to weight fluctation and yo-yo dieting?

13
May

I went to an online social networking presentation last night and learned a bunch of new things. The presenter was Janet Lee Johnson (@janetleejohnson on Twitter) and the event was sponsored by The Link for Women, a women’s networking group located in Portland and Seattle. I’m actually the speaker for next month’s event so it was good to see the drill. Now I’m really nervous because Janet really knew her stuff and gave an engaging and informative talk.

I learned ALL about twitter (come tweet with me!) and more importantly, I discovered Tweetdeck! If you like twitterTweetdeck will be life changing! I ran into a gal at the event that looked hauntingly familiar. After a few probing questions, I discovered that I was her high school cheerleading coach! Yes, I coached one LONG year of girls competitive high school cheerleading. I’ll dish on that torture-filled year some other time. This gal was a wealth of information. Like most people 10 (okay 12 or 13) years younger than me, she totally knows her way around social networking and online marketing.

Good thing because she inadvertently taught me about contxts.com. I say inadvertently because she didn’t really espouse the virtues of contxts.com to me, she merely sent me her contact info using their clever service, which is basically a handy tool that sends a text message to any cell phone you desire that contains all your pertinent contact information. This is perfect for me because I’m constantly asked for my business card, but I haven’t had one since the late 90s. At first it was because I was doing a second bachelor’s degree and didn’t need one during that time and later it was because I didn’t want to waste the resources and energy that goes into the printing of business cards. 

Of course, then I went and wrote a book which is obviously printed on paper…although my publisher, New World Library, is a member of The Green Press Initiative and has books printed on 100% post-consumer waste recycled paper with soy-based ink. Plus, The Denim Diet just came out on Kindle! Finally!

As far as not having a business card…thanks to Lisa Anne, problem solved! Once you get your account set up on contxts.com, all you have to do is send a text message to 50500 from your cell phone and type “Send 000-000-0000″ in the main text body area and hit send (the 0’s stand for the number you want to receive the text).  The recipient immediately receives all your vital “business card” info like your name, email address, phone number, website, blog, etc. How cool is that?

11
May

How exciting! I recently received the message below in my Facebook inbox from a co-worker and friend that bought a copy of The Denim Diet at my book signing at Powell’s in March.

This isn’t just shameless self promotion I swear! Her letter illustrates perfectly just how easy it is to make small changes in your eating habits (by now you know I’m not a fan of the word DIET) and get BIG results.

Yay Hollye!

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Hi Miss Kami,

Hope you are well. I wanted to let you know a couple of things:

1. I have lost about 10-12 pounds in about 7 weeks by cutting out most refined flour and eating only whole grains (I’m a huge convert of wheat berries and quinoa); however, I cannot bring myself to eat whole wheat pasta, but I have a way around that — I love other whole grains, so while the rests of the family is having their pasta (they are Italian, you know) I put my sauce over a whole grain.

2. Since I LOVE TO COOK I am developing all sorts of recipes to get the rest of the fam damily to eat better. If you’re ever interested in having a contributor/collaborator for a Denim Diet Cookbook, I’m your girl. You should try my banana nut muffins (which can be made with a variety of fruits/veggies ~ not just bananas). Instead of sugar/etc., they have a super light whole wheat flour, brown rice syrup, maple syrup, and either a tiny bit of butter or a little hazel nut oil and some apple sauce. They’re really great.

3. I’ve also been promoting your book with all my buddies not only here but across the country. Is your book available at other stores besides Powell’s? I have some friends who are internet adverse and will not order anything off Amazon, etc., but they will burn fossil fuels to go to Barnes & Noble/Borders what not. Let me know.

4. My bone spurs in my neck have made it necessary for me to quit paddling; however, I have stepped up my workouts at the gym (yoga, specifically) per my doctor’s orders. Thus, between sensible exercise (like you said, whatever works for you) and eating intelligently, it works.

So, if you need a testimonial from me regarding how your plan works, again, I’m your girl.

Love your book.

Talk to you later,

Hollye

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How lucky are we?!? I begged Hollye for the Banana Nut Muffin recipe and a pretty picture to go along with it and here it is! Thank you girlfriend!

Banana Nut Muffin Recipe by Hollye Maxwell

Adapted from Baking Illustrated by the Editors of Cook’s Illustrated Magazine.

NOTE: I changed many of the ingredients for this recipe and some of the quantities; you may find that your oven and tastes push the recipe in a different direction; however, this adaptation fits The Denim Diet philosophy.

Preheat the oven to 350°F.

2 cups whole wheat flour, plus more for dusting the tins
1 ½ cups or so chopped nuts (pecans, hazelnuts, walnuts ~ the choice is yours)
¼ cup maple syrup
½ cup brown rice syrup
3 tablespoons applesauce
3 tablespoons melted and cooled unsalted butter (or if you’re really adventurous, use 3 T extra virgin olive oil)
¾ teaspoon baking soda
½ teaspoon sea salt
3 very ripe, soft large bananas mashed (about 1 ½ cups or so)
¼ cup plain nonfat yogurt
2 large eggs lightly beaten (or one egg and one egg white)
1 teaspoon vanilla extract

Toast the chopped nuts about 5 minutes on a baking sheet and cool.

While the nuts are toasting, grease your muffin tins with a little butter and dust with flour or use unbleached paper muffin liners. 

Mix the wet ingredients together.

Whisk the dry ingredients together.

Mix the wet into the dry by folding with a spatula.

Scoop about ½ cup of the mixture into the prepared muffin tins (more or less depending on how big you want your muffins).

Bake for about 25 minutes until a pick inserted has few crumbs clinging to it but be sure to start checking at 20 minutes as ovens vary widely in temperature/cooking time.  Also be sure to rotate the tins about halfway through the baking in order to bake them evenly.

Allow to cool in their pans for about 5 minutes then turn out and allow to cool completely before putting in a storage container.  They will keep about 3 to 4 days unrefrigerated in a container.

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Will someone who isn’t as lazy in the kitchen as I am PLEASE make these and let me know how they turn out?

And thank you Hollye! I’m very happy for you!

06
May

Anyone who has read The Denim Diet knows that during a trip to Texas a year and a half ago, I wrote the first draft of the book over five days while visiting a friend’s family in Amarillo over the new year’s holiday. It wasn’t just a friend. It was a boyfriend. That’s not really news either…one of my first blog-posts tells all about it.

About a month or so ago, we broke-up. It’s amicable and we’re still good friends…it’s all good, for the best, and blah-dee-blah blah. If breaking up under such perfect conditions is so good, why has my appetite taken a nosedive? The other day, I wore my skinny, back-of-the-closet jeans to work (the ones I haven’t worn since my last relationship broke up!) because my other pairs are too loose. This might sound like a good problem to have, but trust me, it’s not. At age 42, I can’t afford to lose even the tiniest amount of flesh on my face and what I’m seeing staring back at me as I’m slathering on my favorite organic moisterizer the last few nights before bed is a tired, old-looking face. I’m thinking about having the mirror removed. I need my appetite back!

Apparently, this is quite common. Yay, I’m normal! According to an article on Helpguide.org, “When you’re going through the stress of a divorce or breakup, healthy habits easily fall by the wayside. You might find yourself not eating at all or overeating your favorite junk foods.”

I guess things could be worse; I could be swinging the other way and eating mountains of potato chips and bowlfuls of M&Ms, which wouldn’t go over well as the face (and body) of The Denim Diet. The article has some great advice to help me get back to feeling like myself again so healthy habits like eating enough are restored as quickly as possible…here’s one piece of advice from the article:

“Make time each day to nurture yourself. Help yourself heal by scheduling daily time for activities you find calming and soothing. Go for a walk in nature, listen to music, enjoy a hot bath, get a massage, read a favorite book, take a yoga class, or savor a warm cup of tea.”

Hey…that sounds like good advice for all of us to follow, break-up or not!

One day at a time, right? Has anyone out there experienced something similar?

29
Apr

I’ve had some amusing interactions with men when I mention the name of my book, The Denim Diet: Sixteen Simple Habits to Get You into Your Dream Pair of Jeans

Here are a few that made me laugh out loud (or roll my eyes):

Bookstore Employee: “What is that? A diet where you eat jeans?”

Radio DJ: “Americans aren’t going to get it because they like pie.”

Waiter: “I don’t have any problem getting into my jeans, it’s my wife’s jeans I have a problem getting into!”

Radio DJ: “Why don’t you just buy bigger jeans?”

Funny stuff fellas!

26
Apr

Give this video titled, “Middle Schooler Solves Obesity Crisis” a gander…

There are no mind-altering revelations discovered in this middle schooler’s solution to childhood obesity in America, but it is a bit shocking that as part of a homework assignment, his seventh grade teacher is promoting a high calorie diet consisting of hamburgers, fries, and a coke…unless his teacher moonlights at Burger King and has been asked by his shift supervisor to drum up more business. Totally possible - times are tough! Get the kids in here!

Yes, it’s a travesty that this seventh grader’s teacher is so ignorant about food and that it’s his job to teach kids about health and nutrition. My kids have been through middle school and I can assure you, this is not the norm. I’m not saying my kid’s middle school health curriculum was inspired and moved them towards better eating habits, but it was basically the same information I barely paid attention to when I was in seventh grade.

The cause of childhood obesity isn’t the school curriculum. Bad curriculum, ignorant teachers, ill-informed, busy parents, a propensity towards watching TV and playing video games, and living in a car-centered culture all play a role, but the core problem is with the food itself. American food manufacturers have taken the food out of our food and replaced it with cheap chemicals, preservatives, and poison that makes us fatter and fatter and full of disease and cancer and they’ve packaged our food in a way that creates truckloads of waste and ensures our dependence on non-renewable resources like oil (a direct quote from The Denim Diet).

Did you catch the end of the middle schooler’s video where viewers are encouraged to check out processedpeople.com?

Processedpeople.com is a website promoting a new documentary…the tag line is, “America’s Antidote to a Toxic Lifestyle.” I likely agree with everything the filmmakers are saying and it’s a cute and catchy title, but the irony is we Americans are letting food factories and manufacturing plants process and refine our foods when our body is equipped to do that job…that’s why we’re fat! We don’t need the grains in our sandwich bread taken apart by a factory, which throws out the good stuff, leaves us with the starchy part, and fills the rest of the loaf with fake fat-making ingredients like high fructose corn syrup, partially hydrogenated oil, and a bunch of other laboratory-created additives.

Our body is a refinery and a food processor…a very efficient one! Eat whole foods in as close as possible to their natural state and watch a miracle happen. We are UNprocessed people! When you eat food (or ingredients in food) that has been minimally processed, our very sophisticated mini refinery and processing plant goes to work on breaking things down…it’s hard work and it makes us healthier and less fat.

Sure, I enjoy the occasional burger. I prefer a less-saturated fat meat like buffalo or chicken instead of beef and you won’t catch me with a white bun. It’s whole grain for me and I ditch the mayo and pile on healthy ingredients like stone-ground mustard, avocado, lettuce, tomato, and a slice or two of red onion.  I make my own baked sweet potato fries and wash my meal down with iced green tea or a nice tall glass of water. A little different from Burger King’s offering, but that suits me just fine. It might suit you too…and your kids!

08
Apr
Photo from www.ifeellikeamilliondollars.com

Photo from www.ifeellikeamilliondollars.com

My good buddy over at Calorielab.com, Dr. J, has some colorful suggestions on how to celebrate spring in his recent post titled, The Color of Health. He encourages people to consume a variety of colorful fruits and vegetables and like most good doctors, he also provides the reasons why! Here’s what Dr. J taught us today about the rainbow of choices in fruits and vegetables:

(Dr. J credits author David Heber, MD, PhD of What Color Is Your Diet? , USDA research chemist Ronald Prior, PhD, and two food and nutrition experts, Dr. Bhavesh Saxena and Dr. Ashok Agarwal as his primary sources)

BLUE/PURPLE:

Blue and purple foods are that color because of their anthocyanin content. Anthocyanins and antioxidants thought to be heart healthy and that may improve blood pressure.

The National Health and Nutrition Examination Study found that people who eat purple and blue fruits and vegetables have the lowest risk of high blood pressure and low levels of good cholesterol, as well as being less likely to be overweight.

Examples are: Eggplant (especially the skin), blueberries, blackberries, prunes, plums, pomegranates and purple or black grapes

RED:

These foods are rich in lycopene, a powerful antioxidant that has been associated with a reduced risk of some cancers, especially prostate cancer, and also provides beneficial heart effects.

Dr. Agarwal says, “Cooked tomato sauces are associated with greater health benefits as compared with the uncooked version as the heating process allows lycopene to be more easily absorbed by the body.”

Foods that contain the red color are: Tomatoes and tomato products, watermelon, guava, cranberries, red onions, red chili peppers, red apples, red grapes, cherries, and many more.

WHITE:

Cauliflower, which has similar cancer-fighting benefits as broccoli, and potatoes are a good source of vitamin C. There’s also some evidence that the sulfur compounds in garlic and onions may ward off stomach and colon cancers, according to USDA research chemist Dr. Ronald Prior.

YELLOW/GREEN

These foods contain vitamin C, which protects cells, and beta-cryptoxanthin, one of the many carotenoid compounds that Dr. Heber recommends.

Dr Saxena adds, “With a variation of the yellow/green color, these foods exhibit a richness in lutein, which is particularly beneficial for eye health and is also high in vitamin C.”

Some foods that contain yellow/green colors are: Avocado, kiwi, pistachios and kale.

ORANGE/YELLOW

These foods contain alpha- and beta-carotenes , thought to improve cell-to-cell communication and slow cancer growth, says Dr. Heber. These foods are also commonly considered good for our eyes because they contain large amounts of vitamin A.

Orange fruits and vegetables may have a role in preventing cancer of the lung, esophagus and stomach. They may also reduce the risk of heart diseases and improve immune function, according to Dr. Agarwal.

Foods that contain orange/yellow are: Carrots, mangoes, cantaloupe, winter squash, sweet potatoes, pumpkins, apricots, etc.

GREEN:

We all know that we should eat our greens! The plant pigment chlorophyll is what makes green fruits and vegetables green. They are rich in isothiocyanates, which boosts liver enzyme function and helps the body get rid of potentially harmful compounds.

Other compounds in greens like sulforaphan and indoles can stimulate the liver to break down cancer-causing chemicals, Dr. Heber says.

Dr. Agarwal explains “They are excellent sources of vitamin K, folic acid, potassium, as well as carotenoids and omega-3 fatty acids. Folic acid is needed to prevent neural tube defects during pregnancy, while vitamin K is essential in blood clot formation.”

Some of the many foods that contain the color green are: Broccoli, cabbage, cucumbers, spinach, Brussels sprouts, and many more.

Thanks Dr. J!

I also provide a list of fruits and veggies according to color in the back of my book in a section titled, Stocking the Pantry…if you’re looking for a handy list to take with you to the grocery store!

30
Mar

One of my favorite things to say (and do!) is “MOVE MORE.” Apparently, James Levine, an endocrinologist at the Mayo Clinic concurs…According to a post on USAtoday.com, Dr. Levine “believes people need to increase their NEAT, or non-exercise activity thermogenesis, which accounts for much of your movement and therefore caloric expenditure. These are activities such as walking to lunch, pacing while on the phone, cleaning the house, cooking, climbing stairs, standing while you talk to a friend, folding laundry. It doesn’t include the calories you burn during intense exercise: jogging, aerobics or power walking.”

I talk about this in my book! I don’t use fancy terms or doctor-speak…I call it moving more. Here’s an excerpt from The Denim Diet in Kami-language on how to burn more calories called, “I Like the Way You Move.”

29
Mar

Dr. Pat Baccili of the syndicated radio show, The Dr. Pat Show, had me on her show last week for an in-studio interview in Seattle, Washington. She’s a hoot and we had a lot of fun. She was very proud to have coined the new (in her words) “pop culture phrase,” TOTALLY DENIM! I’m not TOTALLY sure what the term means, but it has something to do with the idea that we can all relate to denim and how our denim fits or doesn’t fit, as the case may be. Denim, or a pair of jeans, is the universal equalizer. Okay, maybe not universal, but national at the very least. When someone is dressed down in a pair of jeans, they are instantly more approachable. I love jeans. I live in jeans. I wear jeans to work, and now, I get to wear them to book signing events…it’s a little bit brilliant! Writing The Denim Diet  has guaranteed that I no longer have to get dressed up for anything (except maybe the occasional wedding or funeral) and I am A-OKAY with that!

Sway and Cake - Seattle, WA

Sway and Cake - Seattle, WA

Everyone deserves a comfy pair of perfectly-fitting jeans so at all my book signing events, there will also be a denim drive…Maybe I should name the denim drive TOTALLY DENIM!?! Let me think about that! I’ve had three events so far and we’ve collected a sizeable pile of jeans for the Big Brothers Big Sisters program as well as the Shoreline School District Clothes Closet in the Seattle area that benefits children and teens. I will be in Bend, Oregon (April 17th) and Vancouver, BC (TBA) next so if you happen to live in either of those two areas, bring a pair of new or gently-worn denim and a local charity will benefit and you will to! Those who donate will receive a 20% discount on a new pair of jeans from a local denim shop. I want to thank Sway and Cake (that’s me with the gorgeous gals at Sway and Cake) and Third Place Books in Seattle and Nolita and Powell’s in Portland for generously offering a discount to those who donate and I also want to thank everyone who has donated denim. One book signing attendee in Seaside, Oregon at Beach Books donated five pairs! Awesome! Thanks everyone!

26
Mar

My friend Sandy just sent an e-mail to her friends and family introducing them to THE DENIM DIET. I love how she characterizes the book and I’m thrilled that it has helped her lose 25 pounds! Yay Sandy!

Here’s what she had to say…

Hi Everyone!
 
I have something I’d like to share with you, actually someone I’d like to share. My friend Kami Gray has just published a great new book called ‘The Denim Diet’. This is not another book about dieting! It is a book about eating as much as you like, whenever you like. It’s about having it all, a full tummy and skinny jeans!
 
Kami is a born story teller and her unique take on how to nourish your body and make the world a little bit ‘greener’ in the process is wrapped in hilarious stories about growing up with parents who weren’t like everyone else’s, feeling like a social nerd, surviving divorce and raising two glorious kids. It’s about failure, angst, self doubt, perseverance, believing in yourself and ultimately about creating an intentional life.  In short, it’s a great read you and your friends should know about.
 
Oh, and BTW, I’ve lost 25 pounds since reading an advance copy of the book!

Sandy

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Thank you Sandy!

Mmmmmwwwwaaaahhh!

17
Mar

I had all my book signing attendees last Friday write down what they had for breakfast and lunch. I then used these cards as a way to demonstrate to the audience that my book is about tweaking your current eating habits to achieve better health and weight loss rather than giving up your favorite foods. The cards I drew would then receive a goody bag filled with Stash organic agave nectar, Evesham Wood Oregon pinot noir, Tazo organic green tea, Himalayan pink sea salt, Dagoba dark chocolate, Stumptown organic coffee, and a one-page cheat sheet for THE DENIM DIET. Thankfully, these are NOT the ones I drew! Out of the sizeable basket of cards, these four were the only ones I am COMPLETELY incapable of tweaking…these require a complete do over!

11
Mar

I’m on a Portland-based TV show tomorrow called AM Northwest. I just checked out their website and they’ve titled my segment, “Five Healthy Habits.” Good to know! I figured the best way to prepare was to blog about it! So here are five habits that you could start practicing right now…Chances are REALLY good that you will feel better, have more energy, and slim down as a result. Nice huh? I’m all about keeping it simple so these shouldn’t be too challenging for anybody. Be sure to use certified organic ingredients whenever you can and purchase food that comes from as local a source as possible. So give these five healthy habits a go…what are you waiting for?

1. Replace all refined sweeteners with natural, whole sweeteners. Ditch the white sugar, high fructose corn syrup (HFCS), and fake sugars like Splenda, Equal, Sweetn’Low and replace them with agave nectar. There are other good choices, but I’m keeping it simple here. Refined sweets like white sugar spike your insulin levels and metabolize very quickly and lead to fat storage. HFCS confuses your body (it’s that fake!) so your body does the only thing it can…throws it into fat storage! Sugar substitutes like Splenda, Equal, and Sweetn’Low basically tell your body it’s about to get sugar. Then when you don’t actually follow through on that promise, it goes after it with a vengeance! Sugar (aka, carb) cravings! You can’t fool your body! Agave nectar on the other hand is not refined and it contains one ingredient…nectar from the blue agave plant. It metabolizes slowly and doesn’t spike your insulin levels so unless you use the whole bottle on your morning oatmeal, it won’t lead to fat storage.  It’s really sweet and tasty (and fairly inexpensive) so one teaspoon easily does the trick! Check your labels…white sugar, HFCS, and sugar substitutes are in everything! Say NO to them and watch a miracle happen! I’ll have to shorten this for TV tomorrow!

2. Replace white, refined carbs with brown, whole carbs. For the same exact reason as I mentioned above…whole grain carbohydrates metabolize slowly and don’t spike your insulin levels like their white, refined, overly-processed counterparts. Whole grains have more nutrients as well, but they also have the added advantage of containing fiber (which was removed in the white carbs). Think of fiber as your very best friend! Seriously…BFF! Fiber keeps you satiated, maintains good intestinal health, creates slow digestion, and keeps things moving! I’m not elaborating on that last part! Read labels…you MUST see the word WHOLE before each grain and it should be the first item in the list of ingredients. Don’t be duped by clever food manufacturers. If you only practiced (all the time) habit #1 and #2…I’m telling you, a miracle is on the way! Get excited!

3. For meat and sides, think deck of card-sized portions. We eat too large of portions! At every meal, make sure the only mound on your plate is made up of vegetables…it can be a giant mound! If you eat a giant mound of anything else…expect a giant mound to present itself somewhere on your body where you’d rather it not appear!

4. Eat when you’re hungry. The best way to prevent overeating at the next meal is to stay satiated. If it’s 10:30 in the morning and I feel a hunger pang, I first drink a large glass of water or make some green tea (often times I’m just thirsty and not smart enough to tell the difference!). If it doesn’t subside, I am indeed in need of a snack… not a problem! Light string cheese, a handful of raw walnuts, a banana, a few whole wheat crackers (see #2) with a little “real” peanut butter, OR a 1/2 cup plain yogurt sweetened with agave nectar (see #1) and blueberries on top are all perfect snacks to keep me full until lunch time.

5. Move more. Dance around the house while you’re sweeping, attend a Jazzercise class (ridiculously fun!), pull weeds in the yard, walk to the grocery store, take a Pilate’s class (awesome!), or train for a triathlon. Do what works for you, but move more everyday. Take stairs, park far away from your target destination, or do jumping jacks while you’re waiting for the coffee pot to fill. Every little bit helps. Moving slowly or not moving does not help!

Of course, there are more good habits. No trans fats! Ease up on the coffee milkshakes! Eat breakfast! Wait! These and more are all in my book which just happens to be hitting bookstores and online retailers as we speak! It’s a fun read…I embarrass myself a lot! And other people too!

09
Mar

My book will hit bookstore shelves next week and is currently available online at all major booksellers so the question of the day is…How is THE DENIM DIET any different from the bazillion diet books on the market? I’m SO happy you asked! 

Think of THE DENIM DIET as your personal weight loss coach. A great coach teaches you the basics, the building blocks, and strategies for winning…in this case to win at permanent weight loss and maintenance. That’s what you’ll get when you read THE DENIM DIET…only it’s even easier than that! I’ll teach you simple habits to easily and effortlessly practice and develop so you don’t have to think about how great it would be to lose weight and keep it off; you’ll be living it, one simple habit at a time…while simultaneously lessening the impact you make on the planet! It’s all about being lean and green, and of course, getting into your dream pair of jeans!
 
And I have a confession to make…THE DENIM DIET isn’t a diet book! Shhhhh….don’t tell anyone! I know it’s in the title to my book, but I’m not a fan of the word diet. It implies that for a temporary period of time, your lifestyle habits will need to change dramatically in order for you to achieve weight loss. Instead of dictating a diet, I’ll teach you how to replace your old habits with new ones, easily and effortlessly!

Oh and my book is funny! I promise you will laugh out loud (and probably at me, not with me!) as I share my own embarrassing stories. I’ve read many self-help books on a wide array of topics. The ones that have appealed to me the most are those that got up close and personal. Self-help books that only teach and preach bore me silly. I don’t appreciate being lectured at or badgered with heavy-handed tactics and overly technical language.

I’ve tried to create a book that’s more intimate, sensible, and understanding. Just like you, I’m a real person. I’m happy to share my own experiences, issues, triumphs, and setbacks. I don’t stop there, though. Oh no; I share other people’s stories as well! With the exception of my sister’s, whom I repeatedly throw under the bus, I don’t divulge any names because I didn’t exactly get anyone’s permission! Some of these stories are humorous, a few are inspirational, others provide living examples of weight-loss success, and one is a dramatic life lesson in what not to do.
 
You’ll also find a detailed grocery list, a forty-four-page recipe section, my top ten tips for dressing slimmer, and a four-page summary (kind of a cheat sheet) of the sixteen habits to make and habits to break.
 
I realize that THE DENIM DIET doesn’t exactly make a great “gift” book, but I hope you’ll tell all your friends about it!

14
Feb

Starting next month, I will be adding a Podcast button to my blog. It will also be available on iTunes and on my website for THE DENIM DIET. I get asked for weight loss and diet advice quite often. I love inspiring people to become healthier, become better stewards of the planet, to have more energy, and to feel better about themselves. There is nothing I would rather talk about…okay and designer denim and vintage shopping!

I would like to hear from you! I will answer your questions on my weekly podcast (no names mentioned of course). You can ask your questions on any one of my posts by clicking on the comments link below each post or you can send an e-mail to me at kamigray@gmail.com.

No question is too silly or too basic and I will never make fun of you. I only want to motivate you and inspire you to make good habits that help you live a long, healthful life.  So what are you struggling with? What’s not working? What do you want to know? What habits needs changing? What’s your problem area? What puzzles you? I’m all ears!

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